does any other couple have trouble finding a third (M)

My fiance and I have been trying to find someone in there 20's thats discreet but so far we've had nothing but fake people.. :s
should it be this hard?

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RE: does any other couple have trouble finding a third (M)

My fiance and I have been trying to find someone in there 20's thats discreet but so far we've had nothing but fake people.. :sshould it be this hard?I feel the same way. My boyfriend and I are in our 20's and serious about having fun but can't find any others that's serious either

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RE: does any other couple have trouble finding a third (M)

Finding a woman as a third is challenging. Men are a dime dozen so you should find someone willing to follow through. Strangely a lot of men flake out as if they have these opportunities all the time. I have done it before and would do it again.Well I'm down but I don't come alone I have my boyfriend that I am swinging with

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