Rules for Chat Room Behavior

RULES FOR CHAT ROOM BEHAVIOR
1) Absolutely NO talk of pedophilia. NO underage chat at all, period! "stories" from our own youth or someone else's are prohibited in chat. Violating this rule will result in an immediate ban from the room, and when deemed necessary a report sent to law enforcement.
2) Absolutely NO talk about incest, whether it involved you personally or not. Incest role play will not be tolerated either. Violating this rule will result in an immediate ban from the room, and when deemed necessary a report sent to law enforcement.
3) Absolutely NO talk of scat (feces), necrophilia or bestiality. Violating this rule will result in an immediate ban from the room, and when deemed necessary a report sent to law enforcement.
4) Absolutely NO demanding, directing or suggestions to anyone on cam. The user camming may do what "they" want...when "they" want to, period! Be respectful because the cammer has invited all of us into their home through the camera. Show appreciation for them sharing and if you do not "like" what they are sharing do not complain in the room simply do not watch. Violating this rule can lead to being muted, kicked or banned from the room at the mod's discretion.
5) NO trolling for any other type of web site or chat site. This includes but is not limited to: Skype, Chaterbate, snapchat, instagram, MeWe etc. Violating this rule can lead to being muted, kicked or banned from the room. Do NOT post any live links to any other site in the chat room. Violating this rule can lead to being muted, kicked or banned from the room at the mod's discretion.
6) NO repeated posting of "bait" to lure other users, if you only post the same repeated "bait" in the room please limit your posting. Violating this rule can lead to being muted, kicked or banned from the room at the mod's discretion.
7) NO talk about "family nudity" or "raised nude". NO "family" chat at all. This is a SEX site, NOT a family or nudist site and those topics are not allowed. Violating this rule can result in being muted , kicked or banned from the room
8) If a user has asked you to NOT send private chat requests or whisper mode posts, STOP doing so. NO means NO! Violating this rule can lead to being muted, kicked or banned from the room at the mod's discretion.
9) NO discussions of illegal drug activities/use. Please note that while medical and recreational marijuana, as well as some other drugs, may be legal in some locations please keep it to casual mention only in the chat room. This is a SEX site Not a drug use chat room.
10) No solicitation of money/funds/credits/bitcoins/tokens or any other monetary vehicle or cryptocurrency AT ALL! Period. Not for any reason AT ALL! To do so will result in an immediate ban and profile deletion.
11) Ranting, you may NOT rant on and on in the room about what YOU do not like. Not about the site, about the room, about the lifestyle, about all the blank profiles, about all the users who do not chat in the room. Constructive criticism? Sure, file a bug report please. Ranting on and on in the room will NOT be tolerated, period!

A kick from the room is just that, a "kick" and you may re enter at any time. A "ban" lasts for 24 hours the 1st time and expires automatically and can not be reversed. The 2nd "ban" lasts 72 hours, 3rd ban lasts for 14 days and the 4th ban is permanent and the user and their IP will no longer be able to use the chat room. br]

The chat room no longer has private cam to cam. That feature will be offered at a later undetermined time and will not be part of the chat room itself. To ask for c2c or private cam in the chat room will be treated as is trolling for a different site, see above.

If you are witness to, or are subjected to any of the above abuse. Please send a "private message" in the chat room to one of the room moderators or send them a message to their profile. Please use copy/paste for the offending convo as well as the username in your report(s) to the moderator.

These rules can be amended or changed at any time without prior notice.

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So, in answer to a post on line I responded by stating that there appears at times to be double standards. The result was a MOD, will remain nameless, and shame on them, by confirming that they do have double standards for those that they feel contribute and occasionally overstep the mark. Now that was gratifying in acknowledgement but then for that same MOD (spelt correctly I think!) to boot me from the room. I can only surmise that that was an example of "double standards"!

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nameless mod here, YES! seasoned and regular members who actually contribute positively to the room can make a small slip or mistake without consequences being known in the room, whereas fuktards who only come here to "take from the room" and bitch and moan about how some users get treated better, do create what you like to call a "double standard", I myself call it "reaping what you sow" that is how "life" is btw and if anyone told you life was "fair" or that this room is a democracy, they were lying to you.

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He was not here in the early days before mods. Predators looking for kids and child porn, Trolls would not let a female in the room with out verbally attacking them keeping them away. Today we not just have more females joining us in the room, but lot more on cam.

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I got banned and have NO idea why. I hadn't been at my PC for hours and come back and find out I have been banned. I don't recall doing anything, especially since my chat is usually limited to a "good morning" to the chat room.

But, If I did so something, I wish someone would let me know so that I can make sure I don't do it again.

thanks,

Lee

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Hi Lee, the room was "cleared" of all users with "dad" "mom" or "fam" in their username, it is an easy edit btw

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it is my first time here, can you please let me re enter the chat room.

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Pretty sure the last post was not intended for me, but as a mod, I have to respond. The "self-imposed rules" were submitted to AND approved by Team True before they were published. They have been edited to meet the new chat room criteria for being banned. They not only expand upon the synopsis of the rules, but explain why each particular rule has been put into place. All in all, they are NECESSARY for the majority of the members to feel comfortable while either chatting or broadcasting.

Certain aspects of nudism have absolutely no place on True Swingers. This is a sexually explicit site meant for people who can distance themselves from the emotional aspect of sex and enjoy sex for the pure physical pleasure to brings to those involved. To introduce family nudism or parental status into a site such as this can not and will not be tolerated by either Team True or the mods. It opens too many doors and avenues for pedophiles who troll these sites in search of victims.

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You are soo full of shit and have no idea AT ALL of what you are talking about. FUKTARD? That name applies to far too many users of this site and I use it as I wish too. "nudist" is not a trigger for a boot , it often IS a red flag and a term to "hide behind", "dad, mom, fam" and talking about your kids being "raised nude" or how many generations of "raised nude" you are (yeah right) is a cause for a boot, PERIOD! Not naming some anonymous couple that you have personal knowledge of them being pedo/incest? What does that say about you? VOLUMES DUDE! Take a fukin hike and shut the fuk up!

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It's very obvious that ya two (referring to Indy and SRQ...Canjay is like a bothersome little gnat in the summer...irritating but harmless) are never gonna reach a consensus of opinion on the matter, so I suggest a truce.

I can see positives and negatives in each post. The thing is...it's all about perception. Non-nudists and non-swingers alike think we (I am a nudist and swinger) are the scum of the earth simply because they don't understand our chosen lifestyle(s). We probably will never change their minds and personally I don't waste my time trying. My point is...not all nudists are pedo's and not are swingers are, either. True, at times certain uses of certain words set off red flags with mods, but I truly do not believe that SRQ lumps every nudist into that category and for Indy to say that he does is very presumptuous of him. SRQ and I both use the word fucktard probably more than we should, but in our defense, after trying repeatedly to get a point across to some people, ya just give up and hope that an insult will get the point across. It ain't right at times, but when others in the room agree, just maybe we are getting our point across.

A few random comments on a touchy subject for a lot of people. "Family nudism"..."raised nude"...etc. These are strictly my own personal views. Nothing wrong with family nudism...teaches kids to respect fellow nudists and to not be ashamed of their bodies. That being said...I would never expose my children (regardless of their age) to being nude in a swinger setting. The problem with declaring family nudism on sites such as these (sex sites) is...it attracts the pedophiles that troll these site for victims. It is the duty of the mods on behalf of the owners to negate as much as possible any opportunity for a scum sucker to find an opening for plying their sickness. Not everyone sees that declaring the status of their nudism can lead to that contact. Some folks are gullible and/or inexperienced in some ways. That is when we try to educate them. Most see that it comes from concern for safety and appreciate our efforts. Some take offense and think that we are censoring them. Those are mainly the one's that get lumped into the fucktard category after we have exhausted all efforts to explain things. It's really a no win situation for everyone.

I'm not defending SRQ against Indy and I'm not taking Indy's side against SRQ. I'm trying to be the voice of reason in the debate. Each is entitled to their own view/opinion on the matter. I think my main point is trying to get this Forum section back to it's original purpose...to explain the rules and the reason they are necessary for everyone. So please guys...give it a break.

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Steve and Cindy coming forward with the announcement that they have contracted potentially life-altering diseases is one of the most heroic and self-less acts that I've seen on this site. They could have easily kept it a secret, but they chose to be up-front and hopefully educate others by telling of the mistake they made.

Any of us in the lifestyle could have had this happen to us in just ONE instance of unprotected sex. To ridicule them and to say they "got what they deserved" is cruel and totally uncalled for. Remember...karma has sharp teeth and that the bitch bites indiscriminately.

Steve...Candy...my prayers and thoughts are with ya...hopefully, medical science will develop a cure soon. To those that choose to be less humane...good luck with your next blood test.

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