I grew up as straight but was always intrigued of the male body. It was later in life while I was in a sexless marriage that I was introduced to playing with another guy. I was on vacation and was using a steam room when I was asked by another guy if he could play with my cock and later ended up sucking my cock. My cock never had so much attention and I truly enjoyed the experience. I never questioned ones orientation, I just enjoyed the opportunity to being with someone that likes to play around with another guy cock since I was not getting any sexual attention at home.
Every bi man I have talked to admitted he would much rather be with a man than a woman.
They all admitted they can be with a woman, but they prefer men. Many of them end up with a woman as their partner though because it's just easier, and more societally acceptable.
I will admit that I do believe in that range that takes men anywhere from exclusively heterosexual to exclusively homosexual.
But I think as nudistpig stated, there is still a stigma with being gay.
So bi men will always hang on to that small bit of attraction to women they have to feel "normal."
And I say "small bit" because I do believe that most bi men really do want to be with men, but just can't commit to that idea.
And it's why all of my straight female friends say they would never date a bi man. Because they believe the same way about that man too.
On a slightly different note, over the years I have frequently seen bisexual men play themselves up as being discriminated against by gay men. Well, for many gay men there is a reason for that. Much like my female friends who are straight and just don't want to waste their time with a bi man, I'm skeptical too.
First of all, I've seen plenty of dating apps where a man says he's bi and only wants to date bi or straight men.
Again, the stigma. And the judgment coming from bi men. And I hate to tell them, a straight man is not going to mess around with another man. He's at the very least bi, so let's get that out of the way.
And if these men don't want to date gay men, only bi or "straight" men, then there is that definite level of judgment. And it's why some gay men don't trust bi men. They see those guys as just wanting to "slum" it with a dude (because for many of them that's what they really want), but then they run back to the little lady. I admit this is judgmental of me, but it is what it is. And I can only go off my own experiences. I don't want to be used by a guy who really wants to be with me, but just can't. Because it's much easier to be with a woman in society.
I do believe In that spectrum, but the older I get the more I see it through the prism of my straight female friends. I believe that most bi men would prefer to be with a man if it they had that choice and it was socially accepted. But because it's not, they will tap into that small attraction they have toward women to help them feel more "normal." Now does this mean they don't have some attraction to women? No. They'll find it In themselves to be attracted to her so as to look good to society.
So many of them resort to that sentiment, "I find men hot, and I like having them suck me off, etc. but I ALSO LIKE WOMEN!" They always have to go there before anyone allows it percolate for too long that they like having sex with men. It can almost be inferred that the sentiment Is "...so at least I like women too....not like those other guys."
I experienced the same thing, I started watching porn videos with scenes of bisexual men. At first they didn't excite me much then I also decided to look for the top gay male porn sites to watch more and more material. A few years ago I also tried a real threesome with a friend and a girl, and now I think I've truly become bisexual.
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