Smooth All-over
nudists who like the feeling and outlook of their own smooth bodyand like the smooth look of others. so not partial shaved/smooth but totally body-smooth,
- created by Former User
There is lots on how we stay smooth but nothing on why.
It can take a bit of effort. So why do we do it?
In my case I love the feeling. My skin is soft and sensative to the touch. Very sensuous. When naked I just can't keep my hands off myself. At night I gently hold my smooth naked cock and balls. When I'm in shorts I love feeling my naked thighs, sometimes straying up the leg a little. I freeball (go commando...). One time when I had a large hole in my back pocket I descovered the joy of feeling my smooth naked bum. What's more I could do it in public without them noticing. None of this would work if my body was its natural hairy self.
Am I kinky or do others like this too?
Oh, and I quite like shaving each day too.
She feels that having a smooth pussy would make her look like a pre-pubescent girl.
That's a common argument against shaving bald. Another one is that it's "too exposed." Also, "my labia doesn't look enough."
But once they do it, the "added sensation" seems to completely change their minds about it. In my years as a social nudist, I've never seen a shaven woman "revert" back to being hairy. Perhaps even more so than for men, there seems to be an "addictive" component to it. My wife now religiously shaves bald before we head out to the resort.
What I've seen discussed in other forums is whether there is a correlation between shaving bald, and reduced inhibitions about the pussy being more visible. It makes sense to me that there is. The "added sensation" is only going to happen if the legs are open enough for the sun and the breeze to "hit" the labia/vulva. I noticed for example that when my wife is standing around, interacting with other nudists, she now stands with her feet apart; oblivious to the fact that her labia can be clearly seen. And even though she doesn't go out of her way to "expose" her vulva (most of the time), she does acknowledge and accept that embracing her "added sensations" will cause her vulva to be seen. So indirectly, her shaving has caused her to become less inhibited.
Anyway, I do hope your wife will eventually try it. If she does, she probably would end up embracing it.
In my years as a social nudist, I've never seen a shaven woman "revert" back to being hairy...there seems to be an "addictive" component to it...What I've seen discussed in other forums is whether there is a correlation between shaving bald, and reduced inhibitions about the pussy being more visible...The "added sensation" is only going to happen if the legs are open enough for the sun and the breeze to "hit" the labia/vulva. I noticed for example that when my wife is standing around, interacting with other nudists, she now stands with her feet apart; oblivious to the fact that her labia can be clearly seen... So indirectly, her shaving has caused her to become less inhibited.
That's a very interesting idea about there being an addictive component for a woman who enjoys showing her shaved pussy to other people at a nudist club. I think that "addictiveness" applies to those nudists (male or female) who like to expose themselves in general. But for a woman who decides to have a smooth pussy, the exposure is complete. Another interesting thought is that, in order for a woman to experience the "added sensation" while sunbathing, she's going to need to open her legs enough for the sun and the breeze to "hit" the labia/vulva. I bet a lot of women do that because of how nice it feels. I love your comment about your wife standing with her feet apart while interacting with other nudists. At least subconsciously, she must know that that makes it easier for them to clearly see her labia. Either shaving has caused your wife to become less inhibited or it's her desire to be less inhibited that made her want to shave her pussy in the first place. You are a very lucky husband to have a wife who is willing to set aside some of her inhibitions. No doubt, she knows how much it pleases you that other people can see her bald shaved pussy.
Either shaving has caused your wife to become less inhibited or it's her desire to be less inhibited that made her want to shave her pussy in the first place.
I think "which came first" depends largely on the person's personality. Some women start out uninhibited from the get-go; so shaving bald is a natural choice. And many were already bald when they ventured into nudism.
For my wife - as I've extrapolated from her behavior (she's not always candid about her motivations lol), there's a combination of factors at play. Seeing our friends being bald - with no inhibitions about it - made her feel that she was "too guarded", or not confident enough. So she jumped on the "bald bandwagon." Add to this the newfound sensation of having a bald pussy, and she found herself - unconsciously at first - hanging out with her legs open more frequently. Then came the realization that "open legged with a bald pussy" made her more "exposed"; which led to her decision to just be confident about it and "let it be seen", which was driven by observing our friend's attitude about it.
So it's a bit of both, interchangeably. There are times when she's actually completely oblivious to her degree of "exposure"; especially while doing a physical activity - or being half asleep. There are also times when she's well aware of it, and still chooses to be completely exposed in front of other people. And then there are times when she actually gets very self-conscious; like when sitting on the top ledge of the hot-tub. She has herself said that others seeing her pussy in passing or from a distance is one thing; but being able to see all the "details" of her pussy from 3 feet away is another thing entirely. I can understand that from a female's perspective lol!
The "psychology" behind being bald, when it comes to women, is very different from men's - in great part because the vulva is not always "naturally" fully exposed like men's. And it can get very complicated lol!
my wife... found herself...unconsciously at first - hanging out with her legs open more frequently. Then came the realization that "open legged with a bald pussy" made her more "exposed"...There are times when she's actually completely oblivious to her degree of "exposure" ...There are also times when she's well aware of it, and still chooses to be completely exposed in front of other people. And then there are times when she actually gets very self-conscious...The "psychology" behind being bald, when it comes to women...can get very complicated lol!
I still can't always tell when my wife is unintentionally exposing herself (at the nudist club) or when she is being more deliberate. Usually, she is very subtle. Your wife knows that she is more exposed as a result of shaving her pussy bald, but she can still be discreet by the way that she positions her body. She also knows that the degree of her exposure is much greater when she is sitting on the edge of the hot tub only 3 feet away from other people. Hopefully, the men in the hot tub are discreet enough not to stare at her pussy. That would make her feel self-conscious. Good luck trying to understand the psychology of a woman. LOL.
I still can't always tell when my wife is unintentionally exposing herself (at the nudist club) or when she is being more deliberate. Usually, she is very subtle.
I can't tell you the number of times a woman stood or sat in front of me; sometimes within reach - with her pussy completely exposed in front of me. Some will say: "It's not about you, she'd just comfortable/confident." Or: "It's because she trusts you and is relaxed." Or: "She's just unaware." The truth is: we'll never know! Heck sometimes it's probably unconscious.
With my wife, it can be either, or a mix. If she's blissfully unaware and suddenly becomes conscious of the fact that her legs are open in front of someone, she might choose to remain "open" to "prove" she's confident. Because "suddenly" closing her legs would mean she's ashamed. Or she might choose to close them anyway if the "look" given is a bit too "intense." There have also been rare occasions where she made a point of her pussy being seen; for reasons unexplained (but I think a "touch of exhibitionism").
That's why I tend to maintain eye-contact if I see a pussy right in front of me; because I don't know how they're going to react to me lowering my gaze. They might not care or be comfortable with me looking; but if I don't know, the risk of offending can carry a heavy penalty. Ironically, some women have no problem looking at my penis, so there can be a bit of a double-standard there. But let me tell you; if from the corner of my eye I can tell the woman has a beautiful shaven pussy with just the "right" amount of labia and a nice slit, keeping my eyes averted can be a torturous experience lol!!!
I can't tell you the number of times a woman stood or sat in front of me; sometimes within reach - with her pussy completely exposed in front of me. Some will say: "It's not about you, she'd just comfortable/confident." Or: "It's because she trusts you and is relaxed." Or: "She's just unaware." The truth is: we'll never know! Heck sometimes it's probably unconscious....With my wife, it can be either, or a mix...There have also been rare occasions where she made a point of her pussy being seen; for reasons unexplained (but I think a "touch of exhibitionism").
I like your observations about the times a woman was sitting or standing in front of you, sometimes within reach, with her pussy completely exposed. The same thing has happened to me at my nudist club. Are they being innocent? Are they just being comfortable? Or are they exposing themselves deliberately? You would think that I would know enough about a woman's body language to understand her motivations, but I often remain hopelessly in the dark.
I think that your wife may be more of an exhibitionist than she lets on. She walks around totally naked and with a bald shaved pussy in front of other people (men in particular) at a nudist club. I'm sure that you find it very sexy that, despite her nudity, she can still appear modest and shy. What also adds to your wife's sexiness is her unpredictability and the fact that, even though you are her husband and the one person in the world who probably knows her the best, you don't always know what she is thinking. Every now and then she surprises you. It must have been a thrill for you to witness those rare occasions when she made a point of her bald pussy being seen. Can you be more specific? What happened during those rare occasions? That is not her usual behavior. It is very uncharacteristic for her. The circumstances have to be just right. Are you not able to determine more of a pattern? I would love to know the details.
My wife can be like that too in that she can appear modest and shy even though she's stark naked. She has even sunbathed nude in front of people who aren't nudists and still appeared innocent. She didn't say anything to me afterward about having exposed her naked body to complete strangers. (Too bad her pussy wasn't shaved bald though like your wife does.) On the other hand, there have been a few times at our nudist club when she has been more of an exhibitionist (for example, at the dances, when she knew she could get away with it.)
I can't tell you the number of times a woman stood or sat in front of me; sometimes within reach - with her pussy completely exposed in front of me. Some will say: "It's not about you, she'd just comfortable/confident." Or: "It's because she trusts you and is relaxed." Or: "She's just unaware." The truth is: we'll never know! Heck sometimes it's probably unconscious...With my wife, it can be either, or a mix...There have also been rare occasions where she made a point of her pussy being seen; for reasons unexplained (but I think a "touch of exhibitionism").
like your observations about the times a woman was sitting or standing in front of you, sometimes within reach, with her pussy completely exposed. The same thing has happened to me at my nudist club. Are they being innocent? Are they just being comfortable? Or are they exposing themselves deliberately? You would think that I would know enough about a woman's body language to understand her motivations, but I often remain hopelessly in the dark.
I think that your wife may be more of an exhibitionist than she lets on. She walks around totally naked and with a bald shaved pussy in front of other people (men in particular) at a nudist club. I'm sure that you find it very sexy that, despite her nudity, she can still appear modest and shy. What also adds to your wife's sexiness is her unpredictability and the fact that, even though you are her husband and the one person in the world who probably knows her the best, you don't always know what she is thinking. Every now and then she surprises you. It must have been a thrill for you to witness those rare occasions when she made a point of her bald pussy being seen. Can you be more specific? What happened during those rare occasions? That is not her usual behavior. It is very uncharacteristic for her. The circumstances have to be just right. Are you not able to determine more of a pattern? I would love to know the details.
My wife can be like that too in that she can appear modest and shy even though she's stark naked. She has even sunbathed nude in front of people who aren't nudists and still appeared innocent. She didn't say anything to me afterward about having exposed her naked body to complete strangers. (Too bad her pussy wasn't shaved bald though like your wife does.) On the other hand, there have been a few times at our nudist club when she has been more of an exhibitionist (for example, at the dances, when she knew she could get away with it.)
I can't tell you the number of times a woman stood or sat in front of me; sometimes within reach - with her pussy completely exposed in front of me. Some will say: "It's not about you, she'd just comfortable/confident." Or: "It's because she trusts you and is relaxed." Or: "She's just unaware." The truth is: we'll never know! Heck sometimes it's probably unconscious...With my wife, it can be either, or a mix. There have also been rare occasions where she made a point of her pussy being seen; for reasons unexplained (but I think a "touch of exhibitionism")
I like your observations about the times a woman was sitting or standing in front of you, sometimes within reach, with her pussy completely exposed. The same thing has happened to me at my nudist club. Are they being innocent? Are they just being comfortable? Or are they exposing themselves deliberately? You would think that I would know enough about a woman's body language to understand her motivations, but I often remain hopelessly in the dark.
I think that your wife may be more of an exhibitionist than she lets on. She walks around totally naked and with a bald shaved pussy in front of other people (men in particular) at a nudist club. I'm sure that you find it very sexy that, despite her nudity, she can still appear modest and shy. What also adds to your wife's sexiness is her unpredictability and the fact that, even though you are her husband and the one person in the world who probably knows her the best, you don't always know what she is thinking. Every now and then she surprises you. It must have been a thrill for you to witness those rare occasions when she made a point of her bald pussy being seen. Can you be more specific? What happened during those rare occasions? That is not her usual behavior. It is very uncharacteristic for her. The circumstances have to be just right. Are you not able to determine more of a pattern? I would love to know the details.
My wife can be like that too in that she can appear modest and shy even though she's stark naked. She has even sunbathed nude in front of people who aren't nudists and still appeared innocent. She didn't say anything to me afterward about having exposed her naked body to complete strangers. (Too bad her pussy wasn't shaved bald though like your wife does.) On the other hand, there have been a few times at our nudist club when she has been more of an exhibitionist (for example, at the dances, when she knew she could get away with it.)
Are you not able to determine more of a pattern? I would love to know the details.
Somewhat lol!
It typically happens when she's having a lot of fun. My unscientific interpretation is that she gets a dopamine rush to the brain; which then causes some mild arousal. I think that might be what your wife experiences at dances.
The most egregious example of that was one time while she was paddle-boarding naked with me. She was having a blast racing me; so much in fact that she actually fell over. When she got out and back up on the board, instead of standing, she decided to sit; straddling it. It was a large board. So you can imagine how spread out she was. So spread in fact that her vulva was open and she was gaping. She could have chosen to sit with her legs together or kneel; but she purposefully didn't. I'd arrived back at the beach, turned around, and watched her deliberately completely exposed, next to a couple of other people grinning (lol!). I had no idea what had gotten into her, since she was usually relatively modest. When she got back she just grinned and said "Oh well, everyone's seen me completely exposed!" I'm guessing the adrenaline rush of the fall caused a "surge of uninhibition."
Another time was when we were at the nude beach, playing around in the surf. The current was strong so my wife and I kept falling over. As we get closer to the shore, she falls again; and she washes up on the shore, she throws her legs open. And everyone sees her spread-eagled, as she giggles like a teenager. Again: excitement=uninhibited behavior.
This type of thing doesn't happen that often though. She's typically mild-mannered even if she's enjoying herself. Needless to say I'm always trying to engage her in more fun activities lol!
It typically happens when she's having a lot of fun. My unscientific interpretation is that she gets a dopamine rush to the brain; which then causes some mild arousal...I'm guessing the adrenaline rush of the fall caused a "surge of uninhibition."...Again: excitement=uninhibited behavior. This type of thing doesn't happen that often though. She's typically mild-mannered even if she's enjoying herself. Needless to say I'm always trying to engage her in more fun activities lol!
Those are fun examples although still rather innocent. Your wife was being spontaneous and uninhibited, "like a teenager". As you said, maybe it was a dopamine rush. I find it curious that both incidents involved her unintentionally falling in the water while being playful. The fact that she had fallen both times suggests that she experienced an unintentional although not unanticipated loss of control. The falls could have been "accidentally on purpose". That, together with her total nudity, probably triggered something in your wife's brain that made her think, "What the heck. I'm going to show off my bald pussy to everyone!" The paddle board was a convenient tool, enabling her to straddle it instead of positioning herself more modestly. The circumstances were such that the other people knew that she was in a playful mood and, so, they would have been less judgmental.
It's funny how you still don't really know what got into your wife. You're trying to come up with a scientific explanation. I agree with you that excitement=uninhibited. I love when she said, "Oh well, everyone's seen me completely exposed!" Once she was pussy was spread out and gaping, she was REALLY exposed!
I have witnessed my wife experience what you describe as a "dopamine rush to the brain." When we are at our nudist club, she normally behaves very modestly. But occasionally, when we're at the dances, she may suddenly strip off her clothes and act silly. One time a male friend asked her to dance naked with him and that was the instigation for her to strip. She proceeded to toss her clothes at me (bra, panties, etc.). Another time, she took her top off and started shaking her boobs at me. Everyone could see! I was very concerned about that last incident because I didn't want us to get in trouble. I still don't know what triggered her to do that.