Is it wrong to allow your straight or bi friends to fuck you just so they can get off. I personally dont see a problem with it and I personally enjoy sex with my bi or straight friends. Its just discreet sex with friends. Kinda like a sport, once done you pat each other on the butt and go home...lol. What do you guys think.
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- NU
Jul 30, 2021[quote]I agree. If a married guy fucks another guy, it doesnt mean he is gay. Back in the day men played with men to show off their man hood. It was normal. Women have sex with each other and doesnt make them gay. Men are very sexual and love to get off. Im not getting any at home so if a friend needs my hole to get off, Im not going to pass it up. If your straight, then no need to touch my dick or make out if you dont want. Ill lay back and spread my legs and let you inside and let you dominate me. I dont like anonymous dick fucking me. I need to keep my hole clean and safe for all my friends who like to use it.[/quote] Well by that token it doesn't mean he is not, ultimately it's up to the person themselves to decide (back in the day you got hung or jailed for being gay openly so ...). I think it's really important not to hold on to the idea that being str8 is superior, or being gay is inferior, but rather that these are just different ways of being the same thing. Your pleasure is your pleasure, but I will tell you I haven't had a str8 bud regular who didn't end up being a big old bottom for me, which is not what I wanted lol.ReactReply - NO
Aug 29, 2021I'm very open to pleasuring men in need, I'm a very accommodating and willing bottom. Slutty? Yep.
I just wish I had more free time and opportunity. Being married, with a husband (married gay couple here) who works from home doesn't afford me much "me" time.
I would love to be the go-to for a horny list of men nearby.ReactReply - BI
Aug 29, 2021I have 3 married guys who fuck me regularly. Others with less regularity. They have no interest in my junk. They do like their cocks sucked and their assholes licked but what they want mostly is my hole that they can fuck and unload in. None have any interest in using condoms. I do not feel at all bad that they do not reciprocate orally. What I want most is their dicks and their loads in my hole. So it's a win/win for everybody. I have never asked any of them if they were bi or gay or anything else. They are married men who are getting what they don't get at home, a good blow job, a tongue in their ass (which they never get at home) and a tight clean hole to cum in. And I am getting exactly what I want.
ReactReply - SE
Sep 14, 2021i'm a very submissive mwm in Tulsa, Oklahoma. i just *wish* i had some friends who wanted to be sucked regularly! i like to suck cock and lick pussy both and pretty much never get to do it. Anyone looking for someone they can get to know and trust who will suck your cock as often as you want in my area? VERY open to private chat or messages. :-D
ReactReply - IM
Sep 21, 2021My friends are welcomed to have bareback anal sex with me whenever they feel the need to cum.
ReactReply - MEMemberSep 23, 2021
I personally dont have an issue with it. Im honestly really comfortable around other naked men. A guy could jack off in front of me I dont care. I have more issues being around women nude tbh.
ReactReply - DJ
Sep 26, 2021I'm open to it also. Actually has happened a number of times. I don't really care if the have a BF, wife or what ever, I'm single and figure its up to them. I was recently the only one naked with 3 straight friends at pool of two of them. Kinda enjoyed it.
ReactReply - NUSep 28, 2021[quote]I have had sex with many of my gay friends. Nothing wrong with helping buddies out when they need relief.[/quote] Not at all, and lots right I think.ReactReply
- A2
Sep 28, 2021I have had a couple of experiences with sex with friends with no issues. I remember one time in particular I was going to go out with a friend for dinner. He stopped by our house to pick us up for dinner. He walked in and said hey I know we're going to head to dinner but do you mind fucking me real quick first? I truly appreciated his openness. So we fucked and then headed out to dinner.
I know my husband has a friend that he has lunch with periodically and I think they play sometimes. Has been a nice benefit to their friendship.
ReactReply - RY
Jan 27, 2022Like many of you, I've had sex with friends, I'm currently have a bi divorced friend who I regularly fuck, in the beginning, I wasn't into it to be honest because, he was in a different head space and I just didn't like the vibe of how we were interacting and I told him and we discussed it. Now the sex between us is electric, I've even let him fuck me, which was hot also. Many of my friends are guys I've played with and some of us still play and some don't but we're still close. I also have a couple of buddies I'd love to play with but one shies away even though I know he wants to, and I think the other doesn't have the courage to go there yet. For me, particularly if they're primarily heterosexual, I like them to make the move so they feel in control, then I'll take it from there.
Like others have said, I don't get how some women have these hot husbands and boyfriends and these men are sexually frustrated, I don't blame these guys from playing with guys this is why I think so much cruising happens, hey more for us guys eh :-)
ReactReply - RYJan 27, 2022
Like many of you, I've had sex with friends, I'm currently have a bi divorced friend who I regularly fuck, in the beginning, I wasn't into it to be honest because, he was in a different head space and I just didn't like the vibe of how we were interacting and I told him and we discussed it. Now the sex between us is electric, I've even let him fuck me, which was hot also. Many of my friends are guys I've played with and some of us still play and some don't but we're still close. I also have a couple of buddies I'd love to play with but one shies away even though I know he wants to, and I think the other doesn't have the courage to go there yet. For me, particularly if they're primarily heterosexual, I like them to make the move so they feel in control, then I'll take it from there.
Like others have said, I don't get how some women have these hot husbands and boyfriends and these men are sexually frustrated, I don't blame these guys from playing with guys this is why I think so much cruising happens, hey more for us guys eh :-)
ReactReply - NK
Jan 27, 2022I so wish I had a list of married buds to offer service to. To me it would be a great win/win situation. Giving them release with no strings or guilt and they are happy. How would one offer/ bring it up to them?
ReactReply - NA
Jan 27, 2022I have a close friend I can IM and go over to his place. He answers the door naked and give him a blow job and leave. Love the submissive element and the easy access to cock and cum.
ReactReply - NU
Jan 27, 2022Wow, if any of you guys showed up at my door (locals and those passing through my city) and wanted to service me with your mouth, ass and cock, I'd be over the moon. So many good-looking men with a great attitude here. It's been a very hard couple of years. I'm having 3 am woodies again. Need some relief! Is anyone here into poly relationships with their partners as well?
ReactReply - MEMemberJan 27, 2022nkdman1 - Hey buddy,
I'm not a married guy but I'd be your sex friend! I've always found you sexy as hell!ReactReply - MEMemberJun 8, 2022
I've been used by many of my friends, since a young age. Nothing wrong with it...I love it! Always willing to help someone in need, lol.
ReactReply - MEMemberMar 23, 2024
I've had married buddies and single guys and then total strangers over the years. I agree that what happens between two men is a natural heathy action as long as everyone is healthy and safe. I've had to scale back because of one buddy wants to be monogamous and I'm cool with that. We've actually become very close friends with benefits. I have one other that I have known nearly 10 years and he will stop by fuck me and leave. I'm actually okay with that too. I like to think that we're offering a good thing to those in need. We both get what we want and building trust with a "friend with benefits" is a good thing.
ReactReply - JF
Mar 24, 2024[quote]I've had married buddies and single guys and then total strangers over the years. I agree that what happens between two men is a natural heathy action as long as everyone is healthy and safe. I've had to scale back because of one buddy wants to be monogamous and I'm cool with that. We've actually become very close friends with benefits. I have one other that I have known nearly 10 years and he will stop by fuck me and leave. I'm actually okay with that too. I like to think that we're offering a good thing to those in need. We both get what we want and building trust with a "friend with benefits" is a good thing.[/quote] I enjoyed my one-time visit with you.ReactReply - MEMemberDec 28, 2024
I have a FWB for a long time now. He is bi man and married to a woman. She is ok with it, sometimes participating, but other times she undestand we need some private bond. She always encouraged this "friendship" as she hates anal sex, but he loves it! Anyway I don't have any kind of romantic relationship with them, just a fun time with sex and nudity.
ReactReply - CA
Jan 10, 2025To the original post, I dont see anything wrong with consensual fun.
I enjoy sex with men and women, sometimes at the same time ha!
Now have a new male friend to meet up with occasionally, why deny pleasureReactReply - MEMemberJan 21, 2025
I never see a problem as long as it's consensual and boundaries respected. I used to have sex with two male friends almost every weekend. We enjoyed being naked and pleasing one another without demands or expectations. It only ended because two of us moved out of area but we still stay in touch.
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