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Opinion, point of view or just a curious inquiry

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Good day to you.

I have, for the last little while, pondered on the fallowing subject and I still can't really formulate a answer for myself, so..... I'm just putting out there and see what answers, opinion other folks may have out there.

As a gay man, I have enjoyed a variety of carnal pleasures in my life but I can't say that being penetrated is really one of them. Now you may find it strange that I have joined this group at all given the subject matter, but one (me) may be trying to overcome one's own reluctance on the act being done to him (me).

The question I do have is the fallowing, why is it still assumed by the greater straight community out there, that, "getting up the ass" as the saying goes is only a gay thing ? OR that all gay men enjoy getting fucked ?
It is clear by the many participant of this group, be they bi or straight men, that many men DO enjoy and obtain great pleasure from their assholes. It is always the first phrase that one hears coming from straight men who want to insult gay men, "go and get yourself fucked". It's also the first thing that the Christian right will criticized about the homosexual lifestyle, that the "gays" engage in depraved and debauched sexual behaviour, because they assume that all gay men participate in "packing fudge". Have they never looked at STRAIGHT PORN and observed the fucked up things they get up to in those ? It is my opinion and my opinion alone at this point, that what happens behind close doors is my business and nobody else's, so why then this overwhelming the concerns for what straight, bi or gay men and women do in the privacy of their own homes.
I do hope that nobody has found offence in my inquiry and if you do, my apologies but then ask yourself why are you on such a web site if you are going to be so easily offended, I am looking forward to any and all observation, response, life experiences that anybody cares to share.
Best regards to all.
Patrice

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RE:Opinion, point of view or just a curious inquiry

interesting post! i can see your reactions to butt fuck since you have not experienced it. it is a personal satisfaction that one gets from anal stimulation. if you consider the one you are with so attracted to you that you want to take a piece of them with you then you are ready for anal enjoyment. i am only speaking for myself. it's the same as when a straight guy sees a woman that he just has to check out all over. then find out if he can get inside her. it's the same moaning and heavy breathing you get that makes you more excited and pleasurable. when a guy comes inside me he enjoys me sitting hunched and letting the cum drip out of my spinster, this is a great pleasure release for him. i started out with dildos then wondered if the cock was as pleasurable. i found out the real thing is more pleasurable than a toy. hope you understand where i am cumming from. if not then you'll have to experience it for your self.

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