I suppose I am bi in the sense that I have had sex with both multiple men and multiple women. That part is relatively easy. Far more difficult in my experience is having sex with men and women at the same time. I have been to bi sex parties, but never had an mmf threesome at one. I have had mff threesomes, and mmm threesomes, but the mmf dynamic just seems more difficult. Closest I came was with my late wife, with a mutual friend. Something practical that needed attention occurred as we were just getting started that interrupted it, and it never did get started again. I worked on a nice couple I met camping a few years ago, but although there was obviously mutual interest, the invitation never came, and I can be quite forward, though not aggressive, as I do look for signals that I never got. And yet, a former female work colleagues of mine (who was interested, but I don't fuck people I have to work with every day!) was of the opinion (based on her own desire, no doubt) that women in general would love to have two men fucking them at the same time. Perhaps I should have ignored my rule and taken her up on it.

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