Convincing boyfriend

Hello everyone I came here for advice. We are a gay couple my
boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 years I've always
been more of the hyper sexual type while him being a bottom is more
about the emotion in our relationship. I've had plenty of fantasies
of other guys fucking him and me with other guys but primarily him
getting fucked constantly he tells me a lot that he has dreams like
of everyone in town taking him as their own and it's such a turn on
to me he also says that that is his biggest fantasy. Now with me
honestly I've been in open/swingers relationships with almost
everyone I had been with prior I was fine with it they just decided
they wanted something more than me I suppose but I would love to
have sex with others just physical no emotions attached. Now with
all of my bfs fantasies when we first started dating I do know for
a fact that he cheated on me with 2 other people at least and one
of them regularly I liked it honestly the upsetting part is that he
went behind my back instead of being honest which is what any
relationship needs. Upon confronting him he denied it all that's
fine I'm over it I honestly don't think he has since but I still
have the sexy thoughts which is the most important: ) I did flat out tell him why I was upset and that I had no issue with him fuckung other people so as long as we we're both honest. lol maybe I'm
a bit of a cuck too! Anyways do you guys have any idea how to
possibly approach talking to him seriously about swinging like if
when the next time he brings up his fantasies?

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