I've never barebacked....

but believe me, I'd love too! I fantasize about being banged by several guys, all of them depositing their load into my ass so that it flows out like Niagara Falls but...It is always that but(t).
I don't want to catch anything and it does worry me. Yet I read on this page and other pages that guys are saying fuck it! condoms are worthless or I always bareback. Does anyone have concerns? I'm not talking to the guys who are in monogamous relations but the issue is:Is it too much to ask for a guy to prove they are neg both HIV and Hep?I love to bottom, I love looking at a top's expression when cumming and I can assume it would be better bareback.I wish I could join a group that required testing, proof and then fun. Anyone got any ideas? I'm looking for a conversation on this.Cheers!

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RE: I've never barebacked....

There is never 100% safety except with abstaining. That said, Prep to some is a great thing but it at the same time releases some to engage in unsafe sex. You can never trust completely someone's word on safety. Undetectable is at the point of testing and changes from time to time. Never use that as a gauge to go unprotected w/o condoms. Always protect yourself, it is your life and sex has many facets to enjoy. Live long and prosper!

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RE: I've never barebacked....

but believe me, I'd love too! I fantasize about being banged by several guys, all of them depositing their load into my ass so that it flows out like Niagara Falls but...It is always that but(t).I don't want to catch anything and it does worry me. Yet I read on this page and other pages that guys are saying fuck it! condoms are worthless or I always bareback. Does anyone have concerns? I'm not talking to the guys who are in monogamous relations but the issue is:Is it too much to ask for a guy to prove they are neg both HIV and Hep?I love to bottom, I love looking at a top's expression when cumming and I can assume it would be better bareback.I wish I could join a group that required testing, proof and then fun. Anyone got any ideas? I'm looking for a conversation on this.Cheers!

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RE: I've never barebacked.... Try it, you'll like it....

I am NEG. I will take natural bare cock from a man whose representation of neg or of undetectable I feel I can trust. Natural sex is beyond awesome in its psychological power and impact, and its physical intimacy is sublime. I rather bear the small risk of infection from an undetectable man than lose out on the awesomeness of natural sex. I do not and will not take PreP -- the potency of the medicine scares me.

Am I crazy?

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RE: I've never barebacked....

This is an issue that all of us deal with and it is very scary to many of us! I practiced a no-bareback approach until I met and became monogamous withmy BF. We enjoy wonderful bareback sex knowing that we are both disease free.I hope that sometime in the near future that you can be as fortunate as I am to find the right man to be sexually dedicated to so that you can enjoy bareback without any worry! I know that I am blessed with our exclusive relationship. We haven't moved in together at this point but we know we can completely trust each other!Best practice is to use protection until you meet the right guy, get tested and know that you are both clean and not having sex with anyone else, or if you have an open relationship then knowing and trusting that both of you will use protection when having sex with others.

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